Those who think small, even if they have money, they cannot grow. The things that are received in the family leave an impression in all areas of life.
I think the lifestyle of a person depends on his family's education. The environment in which a person grows up in childhood leaves a deep impression on him.
I have seen many families whose income is 2/3 lakh rupees per month, but they live in a very sleepy house. Having a good house is a waste for them, the mentality that is good if you have a good house - they will not accept this.
Many families live very well despite their limited income. Their house and lifestyle, everything is very tip-top. (I like them very much)
I saw the wife of a huge government employee frying eggs with water mixed in them. That or two eggs are breakfast for everyone! He never gives Zakat-Fitra in his life. Cut the cloth soap into two parts and use it, or throw it away!
I also see my housekeeper Swapna who buys a liter of milk for her daughters every day. They burn it at my house, put it in the fridge, and take it away. Her two daughters like to drink cold milk. Never again took the mold from me and put the ice cream. If you cut chickens at your home, they will feed your dogs for a few days at a time...
Swapna may be a domestic worker in Dhaka, but in her village, she is the daughter of a good family, which is evident in her lifestyle. They don't even live in a slum. Along with two other families, they rented a flat house in ''Kalabagan'' First Lane for 30 thousand takas. 3 rooms for 3 families! When asked, he laughs and says, "If you want to make a girl, you need to be in a good place!"
People rightly say - Money does not buy taste. Money does not buy happiness. And, in practice, family identity.
My grandmother used to say - "It takes a soul to eat good and bad. It takes a kidney to grow rice on someone else's feet!"
The lady seems to be right! Money doesn't buy taste and elegance
